Is anything fair anymore?

I am 16 and i've been driving for a year now and have my license. My mom doesn't let me date who i want and im smart enough to know a good guy from a bad guy to date. I'm not a complete idiot. I make straight a's and im now a junior in high school and im very mature for my age. My parents wont let me get a job or meet my friends anywhere because they think im going to get mugged in the parking lot like the 80 year old people on the news!! I don't get it i don't know why they treat me like im five they talk down to me and assume everything i say to them is wrong. When more then half the time, they're wrong. They ignore my opinions and boss me around and all i do is serve them. I feel like im in my own cinderella story. I cant tell them about my boyfriend because when i tried that last time they made us move cities. And they still haven't met him they didn't even give him a chance. So i have to keep my life a secret. What in the world do i do? Please help!